Archive - Bela’s Substack

the psychology of limerence: why we obsess over Love—and how to heal

a storytime & practical guide for recovering romantics & fantasy-brains

11 hrs ago •

Bela Divine

November 2025

Pandora's Box in Chameleon Skin

Welcome to the bullring that is my life (A creative excerpt about a confusing relationship)

Nov 24 •

Bela Divine

What to Do When You Lose Your Audacity

A vulnerable story about how I lost my voice as a writer & got it back.

Nov 17 •

Bela Divine

A love letter for when you're drowning in grief

The paradox of transformation that nobody talks about + a meditation to process grief

Nov 10 •

Bela Divine

March 2024

My Abuela's Secrets

& the power of lineage & inherited stories.

Mar 7, 2024 •

Bela Divine

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